PS only do this if you know for sure she is interested, otherwise is stalking.. don't stalk that is just creepy!!!
XOXO Life bring on the good stuff!!!
I hear a lot of guys say they have NOOOO idea what women want. It's simple really. We want the guy who can make us feel special, the one who makes every moment just a little sweeter just to be around them. If a woman expects you to spend a ton of money she is a user, let her move along yes guys even if she is hot! Someone who is ready doesn't care about your wallet they care about your heart. Don't get me wrong gifts are great but we want what we truly want is honesty and for him to not bail on us if we get a little crazy, take some time to figure out why she is a little off. Be the alpha male, and take charge by showing us you want us longer than just for a moment and see what happens. Show up some where you know she is just to see her or send a message just because, take action and see what happens!
PS only do this if you know for sure she is interested, otherwise is stalking.. don't stalk that is just creepy!!! XOXO Life bring on the good stuff!!!
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I saw the best quote this morning. "Pay close attention to people who don't clap when you win" I am quickly learning this, just once a quick lesson not learned the hard way would be super. I passed my real estate license test yesterday which is a hard test, not many people pass both sections the first try and I did it, it meant a lot to me and I was excited but quickly noticed those who didn't care at all. That hurt me, I am not looking for a parade but a quick message saying congrats would be super. Don't claim to care about someone if you can't even be happy for their successes along with being there for their challenges and expect them to be there for you too. Life goes on and it doesn't change the fact I did something huge for my kids and myself, nothing can take that away from me. I have goals and plans for the future and anyone who wants to come along for the ride is more than welcome to just don't be by my side when it's good for you only. I love my family and most of them are not blood related which makes them all the more special to me!!! XOXO Life let's do this thang!!!
Once you become comfortable with who you truly are things get a little easier. You no longer need to seek from attention from anyone you wait for it to be given freely. You can love someone and wish nothing but the best for them even if it doesn't include you in their life in the role you hope for. Things are just a little more simple and less intense when you become comfortable in your own skin. It's knowing you are not perfect but rather perfectly imperfect that makes you all the more relaxed. Things happen for a reason and when they should happen all for the higher good. Keep positive and know that if you wake up in the morning your story isn't done yet and there is still a ton of magical moments left in your path!! XOXO life bring on the good stuff I am so ready!!!
A little more quiet time to think some more today. I know a lot of people who miss someone wonder if the other person misses them, or if that person thinks about them. But what if you condition yourself to being used to missing them, yet still craving their touch and to hear their voice again. What if you think time and time again that they might want to see you soon and they don't... I blame 80's movies for my stupid inner girl hoping that some day he will show up because he misses me and when I come out of work he is there waiting for me this time instead of me waiting for him. Dance with me in the rain and make it real or just show up and tell me you miss me. I have a love hate relationship with sleep because that is where he finds me in my dreams. I am past the tears now I am down to the point where I doubt it will ever happen because I am just not that girl. Hey 80's movies thanks for making us not super hot mid range goofy girls think for one second that we could get the super hot amazing guys. I challenge real life to prove me wrong, please give me a reason to hold out hope ! XOXO life bring on the good stuff!
I have had a lot of time to think about things that have gone on lately. I can't forget the things that changed me all for the better, the moments that I never thought would or could happen. I will never forget the first kiss, the way he looked at me or when he pulled me in close and said I deserve the best.... Funny thing is I thought that he was the best. Life is never perfect I get that and it's ok that it's messy because that is how we grow and learn. From the moments that I didn't think would happen I have grown some but when they walk away that is how I grow even more. I know now I am able to feel love or something close to it. I know that it is ok to want someone and not need them to be happy. I wonder from time to time if he misses me or thinks about me and I wish for a sign but sometimes silence is the sign and it sucks. Life goes on and good things keep happening I just wish I had someone to share my joy with, but like they say good things come to those who wait. XOXO Life bring on the good stuff and keep it coming!!!!!!!
I have come to learn a ton of things lately, some I learn the hard way like not everyone is your friend. Not everyone who pretends to care actually does, sometimes they really are a wolf in sheeps clothing. Once you get that influence out of your life things start to happen and things become a little more clear. Once the dust settles you realize what and what you need in your life. Simple things matter the most especially the things that can't be bought like a look from someone, hugs from behind, a simple call or text just to say hi.... Time even if it is limited is the most precious gift because it leaves a memory and can't be taken back. So I say to the person who can make me smile and forget that I ever had a bad day, I am right here waiting for you.... Life happens and no situation is ever perfect you just have to work with it. XOXO Life bring on the good stuff!!!!!
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