First piece of advice....... When you meet someone and they say they have a signifiant other and then proceed to flirt or at least try all the while calling their signifiant other "Crazy"... Ok lets think about this for a second.... Are they "Crazy" because they think that person may cheat?? Hmmm lets circle back to the situation at hand and review, you meet someone who has someone in their life and the person thinks they may cheat... Do I need to draw a road map for this one or are you all picking up what I am putting down here? Yep they are "Crazy" for thinking that person may cheat yet that person is now flirting with a potential new person calling the person they are with "Crazy" Does this make anyone else giggle and just want to run to the phone to call said person who has the crazy person in their life??? Yeah I am going to go with the RUN forest RUN theory, if they do it to someone with you what makes you think you are SO much better than that which would make them be faithful to you? If they cheat to get you they WILL cheat on you - think about that before you think making a call is going to work out really well mmmmm K :)
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I have decided the most challenging part of being single are not the bad days but the good days oddly enough. I wish I had someone to celebrate the good with, I am ok when bad things happen because I tend to retreat when things get crazy. I wish everyday to find someone to be excited with me, someone to celebrate with. Someone who I don't just want to sleep with but someone I want to wake up to knowing each day is going to be nothing short of magic in the air because someone haas my back and I have theirs. I adore it when the simple things happen, when he sings to me or just touches my hair, puts his hat on me or just the way he looks at me that makes me giggle even just a text can make me smile. I have been to hell and fought my way back now I would like to find someone to be my partner in crime for the future adventures I have in front of me.... Maybe it will happen maybe not who knows anymore all I can do is keep moving forward and let what is supposed to happen just happen. Have I mentioned I have been patient?????? Ugh come on any day now seriously I promise to be nice :)
I see a lot more when I take a step back and really look at things. I know now that taking a step back is the best way to see things that sometimes make you wonder. Forgive yourself for things that have happened in the past, learn from them and move forward with your head held high. I have learned a ton and now I wait for the day someone walks up to me and he is it, my missing piece, and I am his muse. I miss having someone to curl up with or just someone to make me feel special. What a gift it would be to never have to wonder again if he want to be with me. No more doubt no more questions just feeling like I am where I was meant to be all along. It will be a great day when someone will call me baby and look at me like I am the only person in the world at that moment, I don't need a ring to make me happy what I want can't be bought only felt. Till then I wait and have fun because life is WAY to short to not have fun!
I am quickly finding that learning what you don't want in a partner is as important as knowing what you do want. Once you know what you don't want you can figure out what you need. Get past the outside of someone and look inside them... If they can make you smile and you love talking to them perhaps that is what you are needing. I know I personally l would love to find the person who I crave mind, body and soul, someone who makes me feel like there is no one else in the world who compares to me. I don't need to be the center of their world but I would like to be reassured that I am part of his world that is cherished. I don't think its asking to much to want to find the person who will keep trying even after he has me in his life. I can learn to love again the right way with the right person, without the heartbreak and sadness that I have known in the past and that love will last forever. I know it won't always be
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AuthorThis blog is a random journal of both Tracy waiting for Mr. Right to show up and just great advice based a lot on what NOT to do while dating! Archives
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