XOXO Life bring on the good stuff I am SO ready!!!
Ok so let me get this straight... Nice guys are probably not that good in bed ( let's face it even bad sex is better than nothing.. right?? ) and jerks get more women because they know they are good and they know women talk to other women which gets them even more vajay jay. Bitches get men but they are most likely not to talented in the bedroom while the nice girls are the freaks of the sheets. Nice people get screwed over in relationships and yet anyone laid back gets walked over before they get screwed over... Whew!!!! That is a lot of information to take in!!!! The big question I have is how can this be made right.. Is there any hope to fix it? At this point I am really wondering how we became such jerks to each other, why can't we just be nice and get your freak on with out having to bang the whole country in the mean time. Thoughts are welcome - let's talk about this tonight on Cool Chick Radio!!
XOXO Life bring on the good stuff I am SO ready!!!
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Letting go of what you hoped it would be, might be or could be isn't easy but sometimes you need to release the idea and let new adventures come to you. Sometimes its the idea of what it could have been is what hurts the most, let it go and see what happens. Life itself is an amazing adventure full of lessons, some hurt some make you smile on the darkest days. It doesn't mean you can't have a brighter better future it just means it is going to be different than what you imagined it would be. I see phrases like someday someone will come along and you will know why it didn't work with anyone else, I love those but dang what if the reason is you are bat shit crazy? In all seriousness, being comfortable and happy with your own life is hugely important and that should come first. Make your life great and great things will come along you just have to be open to it. XOXO life I am SO ready for the good stuff so bring it on!!!
Online dating sites remind me of a candy store, a big candy store. Really if you think of it a lot of guys treat online dating like a vagina candy store. They don't really have to talk to anyone and you can be anything to anyone online. It makes me sad when guys just say what they think someone wants to hear to try and get some ass. In reality if you lie to someone and just say whatever you think they want to hear you are just saying hey I am a weak person and I don't really have any substance behind me and I am most likely bad in bed anyhow. Ladies you really don't have to toss out the hey I am easy sleazy card either.... just because they ask for pics doesn't mean you need to send them!!! I am always saddened by how a few people can make something that is supposed to be genuine into something worse than a bar at closing time. I do laugh when people act like that and then complain they can't meet anyone decent, ummmm look at what you are doing maybe????? Ladies act with some class, guys act like gentlemen and it might work a little better in the future just saying.... XOXO life bring on the good stuff!
Call me what you will but I love to make wishes at 11:11. I find comfort in wishing for things to happen, some big some small. I wish sometimes for something that would seem so simple but is yet oh so hard, I wish for someone to like me for me.. All of me not just part. I wish people would be honest and not just say what they think I want to hear because at some point I might make the mistake of believing it. Honestly I have been hurt by lies and deceit more times than I care to admit, I know I am not the only one who has been lied to but if you knew more of my story you would understand. I wish I could just trust people, but I really don't. I wish for financial abundance lately because that is something I can have a bit of control over. I don't need to control things, I just need consistency. I wish someday someone would look at me and see all the things other people missed. I wish someone would think I was enough. I feel bad for those who could have had a chance with me, see unlike other women I don't care who you are if you don't see my worth I will readjust my crown and walk the hell away. I have been to hell and I have no plans to ever go back so forgive me if I seem cold but until someone shows me they are genuine and consistent I won't let my guard down. I won't hold my past against anyone that is not fair but it would be stupid of me to have not learned a thing or 2 along the way. Until then I will wish away for the one who can win my heart, all of it. XOXO life bring on the good stuff I am SO ready!!!
I just read an article that said once you have had amazing sex with someone you love you will never get over them. I had a thought when I read that... What if amazing sex was just the tip of the love ice berg because if they were the right one they wouldn't leave, right? What if the right person not only offered everything you could ever want behind closed doors but also give you everything you could ever need past that too only making it all that much better. I don't think it's fair to say you can never get over someone, I agree with keeping the memories as a treasure but closing yourself off to the idea of your fairy tale ending makes me sad. Everyone deserves their fairy tale ending, some of us might only have the memories and live the rest of our lives as a single person. Being single forever isn't the worst thing ever, settling for just anyone is.... I hope to someday find the person who is afraid to lose me so they never stop doing what they did to get me in the first place. XOXO life bring on the good stuff!!!!
Being single can be a pain, its usually easy to spot the ones we don't need but what happens when we meet someone who might be genuine? How can we power past the crap we have been put through and just trust they are different? After meeting all the liars, cheaters, abusers and low life junk who only wants one thing how can you tell if they are real and not just really good at lies? Most of the time it seems like finding a good guy who is what we are looking for is like finding a needle in a hay stack of assholes lately. I know it is not fair to hold your past mess ups against everyone but it is impossible to not learn from it and to be cautious in the future. So other than listening to your gut and maybe a few friends how do you know if someone is genuine with their intentions and not just saying all the right things. Hmmm I guess this is where actions speak louder than words possibly. Only time will tell maybe?? Ahhhh the journey continues!! XOXO life bring on the good stuff!
Getting lost in the music is sometimes the best thing you can do when life gets a little crazy. I love to play music all the time at my house just to be able to get lost in a moment that can make me smile. Music is a gift that can change our whole day. Bad day turn on some Break Stuff, need to wind down try some Michael Buble! The possibilities are endless with music. So come on you international pop stars of the shower or car, rock out to some music a couple hours a day and see what happens to your mood!!! XOXO life bring on the good stuff!! Sometimes things happen and you realize that it's now just a memory. Yes you can smile because it happened but only after the sharp edges of loss stop cutting you. Missing someone sucks but it is never anything that should stop your life, one foot in front of the other. This list is for all the people missing someone right now. I wrote it from the female point of view but guys you get the point, this list could be for you too!!
10 things I hate about you.... 1) I hate that you don't call me 2) I hate that you made me feel alive again in a way no one else does 3) I hate that you are gone again 4) I hate that way you can look at me and I forget where I am at 5) I hate the way you used to touch me and made me feel wanted 6) I hate that you were right, if someone wants to talk to or see someone they will make it happen 7) I hate not knowing if any of it was real, did you even care or was it just a game 8) I hate that I miss you 9) I hate that I was never enough for you 10) Last but not least, I hate that even though I meet lots of guys, they are just not you. XOXO life bring on the good stuff and shake off the junk!! It never ceases to amaze me what you can find in the depths of quiet. Answers, plans, ideas, revelations about life can be found when it's quiet. It doesn't have to be totally silent it only needs to be quiet enough for your thoughts to be heard. Stepping away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life can help a ton. Just taking those few moments can help more than you will ever know! I love having time to think about things and time to go over things that have happened, it's like rereading texts someone sent you giving you a second chance to think about what is truly going on. I have had a few gut checks lately but it was needed. I might not seem to take all the advice people give me but I do hear it sometimes it just takes a while to process it hahaa! Now its onto a wild night with myself, my dogs and Netflix, yep getting wild on a single lady saturday night! XOXO life bring on the good stuff!!
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