It never stops to amaze me when I hear a song and truly listen to the words and it speaks to me. I have trouble telling people how I feel but I can easily say listen to this song and tell me what you think. I can get lost in the music and remember the good times and the not so good. I have had a few people suggest songs for me to play on the show from time to time and I think the songs that are suggested really not only just show who they are but where they are at in some cases. The best messages I can get sometimes are just songs for me to listen to. It doesn't even have to be a hello in some cases unless its by Lionel Ritchie hahaha but I have not gotten that song suggestion yet either. I will never name drop on the show so there is no worry but I would love to help someone else make someone feel the magic by hearing a dedication on the show some day. I am a HUGE hopeless romantic so some day I hope to help someone propose on air or just send a song to them to express how someone feels if they are having trouble saying how they feel. And Mr Right whoever you are feel free if you are reading this to just send me a song to let me know you are listening even if you are not ready to come out of the wood work just yet. As the band Halestorm says in the song Private Parts "I lay in bed at night contemplating why the hell you gotta keep me waiting" "I'll wait forever if it's worth the waiting". I can look at how happy and in love my grandfather is at 92 and I know at some point someone somewhere will love me like that even if it is a life time of waiting. Until we share our lives however long that may be - I hope you are happy and healthy
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What ever happened to being treated like a person instead of meat?
What ever happened to talking to someone about more than your favorite position or what you like to drink? What ever happened to opening doors and being polite? What ever happened to the days when sending a pic of your genitals before meeting in person was not done? What ever happened to asking someone out before 9pm? What ever happened to dates that didn't end with the expectation of sex? What ever happened to just being able to call someone without people thinking you are automatically in love with them? What ever happened to the simple things in life - why do we need to complicate things and make them more difficult than they need to be? What ever happened to getting to know someone a little bit before you get naked? What ever happened to remembering we all get older its a fact of life, looks change bodies don't stay the same - if you have nothing but physical attraction what will keep the fire going long term? If you miss someone contact them If you have something to say - say it If you need something ask Let's try keeping life simple for a while there is so much crazy in the world Dear Mr. Right where ever you are and who ever you are!
I sit here at my desk tonight thinking about life, love and the eternal pursuit of happiness. I wonder where you are, if I have met you or if we have yet to meet. I wonder what you look like and what you could be doing right now... are you thinking of me too??? I know everyone has special people that grace our lives and everyone says that when you meet that person you will just know.... But my question is what if you meet that person and they do not feel the same way? I am certain the answer would be that they would not be the right person then however can you really rationalize with your heart and argue with emotions? But even more so when we meet can you and will you handle my crazy life Mr. Right? My house is not always clean but it is filled with love and the sounds of laughter. Will you dance with me in the rain and tell me I am beautiful when I look like a truck backed over me? Will you hold me when I need it and even when I don't? Will you stay up late just talking to me about business, life, kids, love and the past and our future? Will you be ok with me trying to make sure you know you are the only one for me everyday once you are in my life? Can you handle the fact I like to act like a little kid sometimes and enjoy the simple things in life like going for a drive even if we don't talk at all, going fishing, star gazing or watching a sunset or sunrise together? Will you sing to me and make me feel like there is no one else in the entire world at that moment? I don't need someone to buy my love I need to find someone who wants to earn it even after you have me..... Until the day we are together I will keep my eyes and my heart open waiting for you!!! Ok normally I don't write blogs this close together but I feel this is needed today well that and because I am in a mood today........
When people are ignored it drives us NUTS!!! Women are not the only ones who are subject to this feeling and I am sure that we are all guilty of it at some point so get the excuses out of your head. Now with that little disclaimer out of the way let us begin..... When we are ignored by someone we care about in a relationship, friends or family it makes people mad... And when you can see that they have received the message and yet still ignore us it makes it even worse. I can see maybe 1 time not responding to a message HOWEVER when it is repeated over and over again it is beyond annoying and it hurts. Now with this said - if you are ignoring someone for a long period of time you have no right to get crabby when they stop reaching out to you at all. Do not get crabby if it is some little game you like to play to see how much attention you can get. I have heard people talk about someone else and say mean things about them why you may ask because someone is reaching out to someone else in some cases to just say hello. I think the world would be a better place if everyone put their egos aside and took a more simple approach to someone texting or calling them - perhaps that person who is trying to contact you had something important to say or maybe they just wanted to hear your voice, needed to bounce ideas off of you or to tell you something. People need to stop thinking everyone who tries to communicate with others is trying to fit them for wedding rings or a casket - sometimes it is much more simple than that and a hello is just a hello not a skinsuitagram.... So to everyone out there my sister included - when people text and/or call you just say hi back it could be important!!!!!! Dear Mr. Right,
As each passing day goes by I have had a few questions come to mind and Trixie would like some answers........ Be afraid, be very afraid.. ok not so much but maybe nervous, oh and take notes too! What the hell happened to the days where men would open the doors for us, or pull out a chair for us to sit on or just the simple act of a genuine compliment without the thought of " I wonder if I say she looks hot what her jeans will look like around her ankles. Now I get the whole women's lib thing and burning bras ( that is just something I will never understand I mean seriously my bras are cute and serve a very important role in my life.. blatant false advertising hahahaa ) but I will never understand where the world decided simple acts of genuine kindness are over rated. Is it because we are in such a hurry or is it just that we have become lazy? Trixie also wants to know what the hell happened to actual process of dating, what is it really now? As the great Whitney Houston said "How will I know if he really loves me?" Some people say you just know... I beg to differ - what if you thought you knew a few times but didn't really know because it ended in a blaze of epic fail or perhaps the person just didn't feel the same way. Now that brings me to a final question.... PLEASE define chasing someone!!!! I have heard about a million versions of it and I just don't get it WHAT THE HELL IS IT?!?!?!?! Sincerely, Still Right Here Waiting For You... unless you are stuck up a tree then you are in a world of hurt because I am not sure where my ladder is right now :) Dearest Mr. Right,
I feel it necessary to explain the real me that you will be working with when you choose to come find me...... Hope you are ready for this!! I may not be the easiest person to find but when you do I love a great conversation, if you just walk by me please smell really good - that turns my head! But the real me is someone who dances in the kitchen and I sing.. badly to I might add. I love to start nerd gun wars randomly or I will do something to get your attention when I want it. I am the girl who one night will come to bed wearing my touch me and die sweatpants and the next night show up with nothing but a smile and maybe some christmas bows in just the right spots. If I know you like something I will make sure to randomly have it for you no matter if it is food, music, art or a game really what ever. I love to make people smile and I love to surprise them to. I also can cook fairly well ( at least I have not killed anyone yet ). If I am in a goofy mood I have been known to crank up the music and dance it out or who knows what. I love the little things the most, a look you can give me, brushing my hair off my face, or just holding me close sometimes. I do not need to be by your side 24/7 and I do not expect you by mine - trust is a must for me! I have a wild side that likes to try new things as much as I have a mild side that loves to just curl up and watch tv with you. I have the mind of a child sometimes, tonight for instance is a great example- I was laying there for an MRI and I kept telling myself do not push the buttons ... I refuse to totally grow up but I know when to be an adult .. ok I know when to be an adult most of the time there was one time when I was carrying my grandpas casket and we almost dropped him because we were laughing so hard ( another story for another time ).... So the essence of me is simple and fun - I call them like i see it and I hate drama and lies.. Hope you can handle Once in a while we all need to come across some of life lessons that can change our lives... I happen to be an over achiever when it come to this so here comes some life lessons by Trixie because Tracy would never do any of this ....... I almost typed that without laughing!!!
1) When a guys says "Trust me" DO NOT TRUST him especially if there is alcohol involved!! 2) Grab your boobs to save your life - its a breast cancer screening pervs - but if you feel something make sure you have someone else grab them too! 3) The phrase" Whoops Sorry " when you are naked can sometimes mean you are not going to fit in your jeans for the next 9months 4) I don't care who you are or what you believe but there is magic in wishing at 11:11 - try it sometime! 5) Never ever ever ever.... did I mention EVER forget to ask someone you are interested in if they are married!!! 6) Squats make a great ass - don't worry about getting a big booty just remember only dogs love bones ;) 7) Guys are 3 situps away from a 6pack ab and women are 4 M&Ms away from the next size up ... life isn't fair get over it lol 8) WHY has no one invented the adult capri sun yet????????? ( ok its not a lesson but a REALLY good question!) 9) Spandex is NOT for everyone - if it started as black and is not a new shade of grey spandex is NOT for you 10) Put the walls up to protect yourself as long as you know how to control the drawbridge to your heart to let someone in when you are ready ****11) Oral sex prevents pregnancy!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am sure many of you are wondering how to date and leave a lasting impression and make someone feel amazing while keeping your clothes on...
I have seen many things in the short time I have been resingled and let me tell you my grandma would be turning over in her grave if she knew how some men like to talk to women now. Heck for all I know she is walking this earth right now spitting nails as a feisty ghost because of it. But when it comes to dating it brings up a few questions for me and maybe someone can answer it before I reveal how to date and make it a not just good but great impression that lasts. Questions: 1) What constitutes a date 2) Who should ask who out? 3) At what point are you exclusive or does there need to be a conversation 4) Why is it that when you have a conversation over the phone people tend to assume that they are automatically dating even in some cases before they meet? 5) What ever happened to really good conversations - you know the ones that don't always lead to naughty talk ( they can don't get me wrong I am just as dirty as the next person but I don't always like to talk about it ) Ok enough of the questions - so without further hesitation let me describe a date that even with alternate activities or locations will leave a lasting impression in a great way not a she is in the car calling her friends because it went so epically bad....... Meet her somewhere if need be - a nice quiet restaurant for something to eat make sure to talk to her about life not sex - kids if you have them too.. Take the time to get to know each other. After you eat maybe drive to a park or a lake if you are at the lake walk down on the dock and hold her maybe a little kiss if the timing seems right and walk a bit more holding hands and don't be afraid to just be with each other talking is not a must at all times its ok to be quiet too sometimes and just enjoy the moment. Then take off drive a bit more while you are driving maybe find a song you know and sing to her no matter if you are a great singer or not ( it shows confidence ). After that go get something to drink alcohol or not it doesn't matter just a quiet place to talk a bit more. Tell her she is beautiful at unexpected times and maybe sneak a little kiss in here and there. Make her feel like there is no one else in the world at that moment. After a bit walk her out to her car or door if you drove, and wrap up with a hug and kiss perhaps if appropriate. Then go home ( leave your clothes on and romance her mind instead it lasts longer than you will in bed anyhow guys :)... just saying! ) Doing things like this will stick with her a lot longer and put you in a league all of your own in the best way possible I prom So as it turns out I am not sure what happened to the way people treat others. When I was growing up not only did I have to walk up hill barefoot in 10feet of snow only to have to build the school when I got there but we also had to treat people with a little thing my mom called respect. Hmm interesting concept anymore I guess. When I am talking to someone and the first thing they ask is if I have any "pics" to send them please do not expect me to have a whole folder of pics that have been taken just for your "special time fun" So I think I will take to sending a pic of a black screen and let them know I took a pic of myself in the dark... you are welcome sir!! Sexy oh I know!!! But seriously do not get demanding with anyone try to be a little understanding if we can't meet you the second you think it must be done so get your knuckles off the ground and stand up straight because there are a lot of single ladies out there looking for a true gentleman... So in closing don't forget the basics - Please and Thank you go a long way and no that does not mean say can I see a naked pic of you please. Just don't ask ... Oh and guys if you ask her to send one and she sends it right away - just remember you are not the only game in town and she probably sent the same pic to others too ( sorry if you no longer feel special )
Dear Mr. Right,
It seems that I have met your family members thus far in my adventures in being resigned. I have been graced with the presence of Mr. Needy, Mr. Whiney, Mr. Lets get married now ( ok I met a few of them ) Mr. Player, Mr. Liar liar your pants must be on fire by now ( to many of them for comfort ) , Mr. Guess who is still married, Mr. I want nothing but to see you naked, and Mr. OHHHHHHHH just soooooo close. In this process I may have in fact met you or spoken to you and you may very well be laughing you butt off at me right now as you read this! Life has it's ups and downs and throughout the last year and a half I have learned so much about my self and people in general. I am a much better person for it and I am grateful that maybe we have not begun our walk down the same path just yet so I could learn and grow as a person. I do however have a few desired qualities I would like to find in you..... Here we go!! 1) Must know how to bait a hook 2) Must not be cranky if we are fishing some day and I scream like a girl and try to cut an ugly fish off my line ( I am a girl still silly ) 3) Must be a little handy or know people because I have a tendency of breaking things ( I can fix them most the time but that is getting old fast ) 4) Must love kids and animals 5) Patience is a virtue I love 6) Intelligence is SEXYYYYYYYY - I love a great conversation!!! 7) Must be funny 8) Liars and Married men - keep it moving ***BONUSES*** Big truck, Boat or 4 wheelers and saying you LOVE my cookies ( the kind I bake not the other one ) and please DO NOT TRY to sleep with me on the first date!!! More blogs to come I hope you like it and tell your friends to check out the blog and Cool Chick Radio!!! |
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