We all know I can ask a million questions about everything and still have more. Maybe its time to put my questions on air and have a panel of not so experts weigh in on the questions that plague me an many others - someone has to know right! If you think this is a good idea start send me your questions and we will see if we can answer them the best we can or if you have an interesting situation you would like to discuss send it to us as well and we will have you on the show let's face it sometimes outsiders see things alot clearer than we do!!!
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It doesn't happen every day that we can start talking to someone who makes us think of more than just the moment we are in. When that happens it for sure catches us off guard and possibly even for a moment takes our breath away. It is the moments like this that we all live for and long for so when it happens enjoy every second of it because it may not last forever. But on the other hand being a hopeless romantic and wanting moments like this adds a new challenge to dating. It makes it a bit more difficult because we want a moment like that as a sign that we are supposed to be connected to that person for some reason even if it is for just that moment only. But when we meet someone that a breath taking moment doesn't happen then we tend to back off right or wrong it happens to the best of us. But when that moment happens sometimes the other person is not even present it could be a text, email or a phone call that does it and then we want more. But when it happens to one person and not the other that is when people can get hurt and that is not fun for anyone involved. I am one person that once I feel that draw to someone I may not be hugely attached at the moment but if they pay attention it would not be hard to make me fall once that happens a little attention would be all it takes. I may keep people at arms length but that is to try and keep myself from getting hurt I let my guard down once trust is established so when that happens you are in rare company of the totally metaphorically naked real me
I am a very patient person who is forgiving almost to a fault. You are busy I understand, work I get it , family time please do, friends for sure! But please understand that if I am not given any of your time not even a text or a call that I will be open to others giving me attention. And at some point they may take your place and I may not respond to your calls or texts so please understand. I want someone who wants me I will pursue those who do the same for me. If you miss me tell me, want to see me make it happen simple as that. I will always be open to telling someone when I miss them and asking for time to. So if you are to busy to even text me a quick hello please understand that I have a 2 days ignoring me or 3 texts to you with no response rule then its up to you because I will not beg someone to be with me who doesn't want me enough to say hi at least once in a while. I am not asking for hours every day but I am asking for real time not sneaking me in between other women or a quicke in a parking lot over lunch or later in the day. Treat me well and smile forever ignore me and be ready for someone else to take your place at some point. I along with everyone else are far to awesome to be ignored by those who claim to care. So Dear No One - call, text, email or find me to keep me other wise I am gone and you then wi
I wonder if anyone misses me from time to time. I wonder if they think about me. I know sometimes I think to much but it comes with the territory I guess. I hate it when things end suddenly or someone is just not there anymore and it leaves a hole in life wither it be friendship or more. So it makes me wonder at least until I see something shiny if anyone thinks about me or misses me. People come and go from our lives all the time but its easier to understand the lesson if you know why they are there but sometimes the lesson is that we have to figure it out for ourselves. I often think about people I have met on this crazy adventure I have been on and wonder if I have changed their lives for the better have I inspired someone to not give up hope. I am a card carrying die hard fan of hopeless romantic life so yes I love love and no I don't fall fast and hard for every single person I meet it takes a very special person to get to me and it will take a stronger person to stay with me. I may be hard to love but I promise I am worth the fight to get there!
I admire anyone with confidence but when you think that you are the only person in the world that can make anyone happy and that your dick is the only one that can satisfy someone I get annoyed fast. News flash when you feel the driving need to inform someone who you can get them off much better than everyone else you obviously have nothing else to offer past that. I say let your skill speak for itself and STOP telling people how good you are because trust me when and if you ever get a shot at the title if you kiss like a new born llama you will most likely be disappointing in other areas as well. The most attractive thing a man can do is be himself and check your dick at the door! Trust me guys when I say if we start talking to you and all you can say is how bad you want us unless you want us to hit it and quit it you may want to shut up stand up and be a man. Talk to us and offer us something someone else can not, be not only our friend but our lover as well the connection you will feel when we are skin to skin will be all that much better I promise! So I have decided no one will get even remotely close to me until they take the time and get to know me so if I say lets plat 20 questions and your first one is what is your favorite position the game will end quickly and you will be sent to the losers bracket however if your first question is what is your favorite color or flower or something more get to know you like that you wiw
It is my opinion that there are 2 types of physical love that make the world go around. The first kind is making love, very soft and gentle and can last a long time. Soft music and maybe even a little planing to it as well. Perhaps some roses on the bed or around the hot tub or bath tub along with some lingerie as well. Soft and slow the whole time exploring each others bodies to the fullest extent and a true exchange of emotions. Now for the polar opposite pure raw physical attraction not much more than just animal sex. This is by far my most favorite kind because its always extremely hot and 9 times out of 10 amazingly satisfying to both people. By this I mean when you can see someone and the sexual tension is so high that the animal in you takes over and it is hot and sometimes forceful physical time together. Being thrown down on a bed or against a wall ( in a non violent way ) with a kiss so deep it makes you forget your name then tearing each others clothes off and searching each others bodies for any questions you have ever had about physical satisfaction. Personally I love it when you can be walking past someone who you are attracted to and there is just something about them that makes you only think about them and then BOOM you are going at it in random places. An attraction so intense that you can barely make it out of a parking lot sometimes. Now that to me makes life amazing and my wish is to find someone as attracted to me as I am them that this happens often! Talk about keeping the spark alive!! I think when you kiss someone you know if the spark is there and which direction the whole thing will go - always remember the first kiss is always important because you j
Men with wives or girlfriends who "forget to tell us" druggies and dealers, clingy guys with no identity of their own and people who can't carry on a conversation these are a few of my least favorite things. Tonight was a new first for me friends I got a text from a mystery number saying was it a special occasion and I said what was and they said making dinner.. Ummm what the hell!!! Turns out someone I met online has a wife and lord knows what else supposedly and this is just a reason why I am grateful to be in a position where I am open to meeting new people but never to desperate to meet them that I would put myself into a position like this ever again. No drama for this mama thank you I can wait to meet someone special and who knows maybe I will be lucky enough to meet him soon or maybe I have to wait or I might even know him already! I don't ask for much past just be honest with me and please don't hide things especially things like a wife or the fact you are not who you say you are! You can be anyone online this is true but eventually like all lies the truth comes out!!! I would really like to find someone willing to text me good morning and maybe good night and do cute things for me like if you can't send me flowers send me a pic of them! Its the thought not the price tag that counts but real ones are a bonus too!!! I am a very basic person to get to know. I like simple things and I like to be made to feel like I am special and when I am with someone I want to feel like I am the only person in the world at that moment. Hopeless romantics l
Ok maybe this is the less believing side of me but seriously everyone says the same thing it will happen when you least expect it. My rebuttal to that is perhaps I already know who the right person is and maybe its a matter of him waking up and realizing me wants me rather than just timing or being open to it. I did an interview the other day with an awesome lady named Becky and she suggested that perhaps its not that we have not met the right person but maybe its a matter of life placement and where you are VS where they are at which makes sense if you think about it. You could meet the most amazing earth shattering person you could ever know and the time just not be right for you two to be together not that you are not supposed to be together but perhaps your story is written a bit later in your book of life rather than right this second. Maybe we are all supposed to be hurt or have our heart broke so we can really appreciate the love when we find it for good if we are lucky enough to find it in this lifetime because we are not all that lucky. As the song goes if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with!
Talking with a few friends about stupid things people do when they are hormonal and no I am not talking about PMS. I am talking about when it has been a while since you have had physical attention. We have all done it once or twice or who knows how many times people have had "accidents". I have an idea on how to avoid stupid decisions - love comes in many forms for women its emotional and for guys well not so much emotion as physical. What if you have someone who is willing to help you out once in a while say if you have gone 6 months or more and you can't even look at a picture of someone without wanting to tear someones clothes off. As consenting adults I think we should maybe have a choice to reach out for the physical needs to be met but I would say reach out to someone you know and trust for that not just a stranger because really who wants to play russian roulette with their lives because they are horny!!! Of course there is always the self service option but after a while it just doesn't take the proverbial edge off totally. So instead of meeting someone and letting hormones get in the way of your brain thinking its love when really its just lust perhaps an occasional hookup would not be the worst thing ever. I would LOVE to hear everyones thoughts on this!!! Dear No One I want to have a clear head when I meet you so either hurry up and find me or someone is getting a hug from my legs around their waste soon!
I have yet to figure out why I am good enough to text or call from a bar or where ever alcohol is being enjoyed and yet just not good enough to get a call or text while they are sober. Is it the liquid courage they are consuming or is it more than that? The possibilities I think of when that happens are 1) you are lonely did a mass text and I am the idiot who responds 2) you like me but you are afraid to say anything sober 3) I am a scary person 4) you know that I am a sucker for any remotely cute text and I will respond and you are secretly hoping for it to work and for my clothes to magically fall off and I come running to meet your every need until you are sober and I suck again? Ok maybe the last one was a bit harsh but GEEZE guys really!!! Why is it such a mystery that I will not come running after 11pm to where ever you are because you decided that you now miss me and want to see me. Bit of advice guys.... MISS ME WHEN YOU ARE SOBER FOR ONCE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS! Sorry for the aggressive message but really I am pretty cool during the daylight and I am even pretty cool with out alcohol too - try it some time it could be crazy and you might like it to who knows! Ok rant over again I now return you to your day :)
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