No one has ever said being a single mom was easy, heck I knew it wasn't going to be easy the moment I choose this route but I will never regret it for one second ever! My kids always come first and everything I do I do for them like any other mom out there. Being a mom first means I can't always go out when I want to because sometimes they need me more than I need to go out. Being a mom first means having to look at the big picture and decide if something is good for not just myself but all of us both long term and short term. Yes I have 4 kids and I am so incredibly proud of them all everyday. I see so many single moms out there who rush into relationships just to be in one but really whats that showing them? I am perhaps a rare breed of single mom who believes protecting my kids and trying to make things consistent is the right way to go. I don't bring people to my house when the kids are home heck who am I kidding it's rare I even tell anyone where I live and stay with me here yeah I don't think so yet. To the men who are freaked out because I have 4 kids clearly you are not understanding you would not be in my life for them but for me. Around my dinner table we talk about Illuminati, conspiracy theories, school, etiquette, and the bible to name a few subjects if you can't handle that I suggest you not even try to join us. I have been told that me having 4 kids could cause someone to be embarrassed or intimidated which I think is the silliest thing ever but I guess I get it being around 4 extra people might not be ideal but tell me a time that is always ideal. I know the right person won't see them as a road block but as a bonus because every child is really just a bonus to life and not everyone has that privilege. Happy Mother's day to all the mommies out there and the daddies doing double duty as moms too its not easy but its SO worth it!
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