If anyone says being a single mom is easy slap them for me. No one ever said being a mom is easy let alone a single mom but its a job we wanted the day we found out the newest name we get to be called is mom. Its not a job I would ever ever give up or regret one day because its the most amazing thing I have ever done in my life. There are a few things you give up as a single mom though, things like: me time, fashion that is current, food off your plate, being able to go to the bathroom alone, whats a paycheck? All the things that cause a struggle are far out weighed by the good that comes from it, I would list all the good but seriously who has that much time! I get a kick out of it when people who are married judge me - hello I was married it didn't workout ( religious differences he thought he was GOD I disagreed). The thing that cracks me up the most when people try to talk down to me or get after me about not really dating much is that they just don't get it, I would rather give my kids a little something extra once in a while than go out for a night. Unlike many other people I am ok with self sacrifice for my kids, they have a father already so its not like I need to be on the prowl for a new baby daddy, seriously some people are on the hunt and maybe I just don't have the time or energy for the games and BS that seems to come along with it. I believe that when the time is right the perfect person for me will come into my life and stay. Until that day I will make sure my kids are happy and my life keeps going in the direction I have always dreamed it would, single or not life is an amazing adventure that I take on with school girl giddiness!!!
For those who think I should be remarried by now I have to say yes my kids are my reason for getting up in the morning they are not a substitute for love because there is no man in the world who can love me like I love them or they love me. Kids can never replace romantic love however the best romantic love is totally worth the wait - I learned that much from my first marriage!!! I can wait for the love
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