I am SO tired of people acting like being single is the worst thing in the world. The mindset of needing to be in a relationship to be happy is one of THE MOST messed up things I have heard. I am tired of being treated like I have some damn disease because I am a single mom. News flash being a single parent is hard work, we do the work of both mom and dad when the kids are with us. Unless you have been in that situation DO NOT speak like an authority on the subject. It makes me sad when people do not take the time to find themselves again after the end of a relationship, take the time to heal first before you move on. If you don't take the time to heal and rest your heart you are not giving yourself the ability to give your whole self to the next person and it only sets that relationship up for failure in the end. Being single is not a bad thing ever! Being single means you are patient enough to wait for the right person not choosing to cling to the next person to come along. In my opinion thinking you HAVE to be in a relationship to be happy is not only archaic but weak minded. I can not stand it when people say oh I am sorry you are single... well that is weird because I am not sad about it and last time I checked it is my life so there is that. Things happen and no one is perfect but life is also to short to not be happy or to be scared. Making the choice to be single is not always easy because sometimes you still care deeply for the other person but for whatever reason the relationship had to end. Everything happens for a reason and thats ok. But seriously looking down on people who are single is beyond stupid, my heart breaks for the people who are in a relationship and miserable because they feel stuck. That is a travesty not being single.
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