I love helping people and giving advice on love or whatever I can. I have been chatting with one of my very good friends and she struggles with what to do or think about her boyfriend. I thought about it and really the advice I gave her applies to more than just love it applies to life in general. I told her if you don't really know what to do, do nothing and change your focus to something else. Changing your focus to something else allows our mind to quiet down and fate to take over. We need to remember that when things seem to get crazy maybe it is because it is happening to us for a reason so we grow or see a solution from a new perspective. Taking a step back and looking at the big picture is a lot easier when you can set emotion aside and you can look at things with fresh eyes. Take a bath, go for a walk, read a book, take a drive, take a nap, anything other than over analyzing a situation that may not have an answer right away. I am taking this advice myself when it comes to love. For a while now I thought maybe love just hates me then it occurred to me maybe I need to just stay busy with other things and let whatever is going to happen just happen. A great example would be me going to the store today with no makeup on, hair not done and of course a super hot guy was at the store and I am there looking like the creature from the black lagoon… lovely!!! Fate loves to mess with me all the time like that and to fate I say game on bring it because I know if someone wants me at some point he will see me with no makeup on if its at the beginning it can only go up from there ha! Peace, love and find your distraction while fate does its thing!
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