I have been sitting here wracking my brain trying to figure out why people would be so quick to take their clothes off before they let down their guard to someone emotionally. I am choosing to look at things a bit differently when people get very forward with me from now on, I choose to appreciate the honesty that they show me and it is then my choice if I would like to pursue that option or if it is just not for me and what I want. I just wish that when people are blunt about wanting physical relationships if you knew where you stood longer than an orgasim. It would be great to be able to make an informed decision before letting someone get close like that. I think that if you only want 1 thing from someone you should be upfront, don't say you are not ready for a relationship when the truth is that you are just not with that particular person.
1) Maybe the other person is very busy and the time spent together is limited so they are trying to speed it up if you will. 2) They are just not that into you but want to "kick the tires" with you so to speak aka hit and run 3) They have no intention of committing to you emotionally but want the physical connection with someone 4) Perhaps they are not sure how to take things to a higher level with you and they just say it bluntly
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