How do you know when it's right, when it's time to leave or when it's time to fight? The simplest yet most complicated answer I can give you is listen to your heart. I was told when I was married that I would know when it was right, truth is I had no clue what I was doing when I uttered those words one fate filled October day. I had no idea what I was doing, I had no plan yet the words just came out all on their own. It wasn't until he actually left that what I can only explain as I woke up. It was amazing and empowering all at the same time. I still had no plan I just knew the plan for my life was bigger than what I had ever imagined and if I kept the faith that it would all work out it would be ok. It hasn't been easy but I can honestly say it was absolutely worth it. Do I think everyone going though a hard time should end it, not a chance in hell!!! If you are in love with them you fight, if you see a future with them you fight and you fight with everything you have every second of every day. If you can look at them and feel compassion yet no passion maybe it's time to move on. If you look at them and feel nothing then the answer becomes much more clear and easy to put into words. It will hurt at first but hurt heals with time and gives way to something much more beautiful. I am still waiting ever so patiently for the one to come along and show me everything others have failed to see. Maybe he will be something out of the movies or maybe it will be something much more simple. All I know is that I will know when he touches me that he is the one I have been waiting for. Ugh I sound like a stupid girl with fluffy bunny feelings right now barf haha! So the best thing I can say is if you are wondering if you should stay or go, just listen to your heart and sometimes when you just blurt things out it's the universe taking over and throwing you onto the path you need to be. Food for thought right!! XOXO life I am so ready for more amazing things to come my way, and if it happens to be someone who will smile and brush the hair away from my face I promise I won't be to upset!!!
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