I giggle when people lecture others about being to picky and they say get over it and be realistic - to me thats like saying it will never happen so learn to settle. Perhaps that's what is wrong with relationships lately, we settle for what we can get instead of waiting for what we truly want in a partner. I have had many people tell me that I want someone the equivalent to a unicorn, I call BS on that because I know he is out there! Wanting someone who is bigger than me so I feel protected isn't stupid because for a large part of my life I had to be the one protecting everyone. I would love to have someone who can put his arms around me and make me feel safe - I am a natural protector so I will never stop but to feel safe is one of the best feelings ever. I want someone who takes care of himself by working out even a little, doesn't smoke or drink 24/7, someone who will bring me up and be my biggest fan not someone who needs to keep me in my "place". I would adore someone who knows I have 4 kids and doesn't mind the fact they love to talk, they already have a dad but what they need is a male role model. My kids are my everything so if anyone gets to come to our bubble aka the house it's only because I trust them a lot. Some where out there is the person who will look at me like I am the most amazing thing they have ever seen and when we connect it will be simply wonderful.
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