I am curious if there are a lot of men out there who think that because of the whole women's lib movement that you don't have to do anything and that the women should be the one pursuing you now. I am going to let you in on a secret guys, even if you are shy we want you to make some effort. No we are not expecting perfection but a little acknowledgement of our ability to breathe would be great! Please don't wait and wait for the woman to make the move because honestly guys we get really tired of the oh hey look she wants me because we text you or called you. If we text or called you its to talk to you!!! Women are not as complicated as men think we just want you to show some damn effort to keep our attention. Yeah we won't wait forever for you to decide that this is the moment when you will finally get off your ass and do something about it by that time we may be long gone or worse for you NOT INTERESTED In being ignored any more. I would be willing to bet that not many people look at it like that. Yes there are some women like me who have no interest in being with someone who will make us feel alone! We are all busy I get that but seriously how hard is it to text once in a while especially when you hold your freaking phone like its a damn security blanket all the time. WTF do you think we really don't see it, are you hoping that we are that incredibly stupid that we won't figure out that you are giving becky from down the block attention while you keep us on hold?? NEWS FLASH romeo we figure it out pretty quick and we are over it and your silly games faster than you can wash up from a little fun time with your latest flavor. Check back when you figure out that women like myself are out there and we are loyal to those who are loyal to us until then have fun with Bambi boys. And just so we are clear I am not talking about anything going on in my life just tired of guys saying that women are hard to understand and "freak out" all the time. Some are crazy this I will admit but if you are playing games expect the games to not end well, say what you mean and mean what you say. Don't tell someone you love them if you are saying that to a hundred other people too its just tacky and always remember the golden rule treat others how you want to be treated!!
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