I am not sure having quiet time for me is a good thing necessarily. I become observant when I do but it reminds me of who I am what I want and what I don't want so maybe it's ok. I see to many people treating marriage like a business deal, he will buy me this she will do this for me. That's super duper but what about love, passion and not wanting to be without that person for the rest of your life? Perhaps my first marriage taught me a lot about stuff both having it and losing it all. Been there done that have the bankruptcy papers to prove it. If I can give a bit of advice to those in a relationship or wanting to be in one long term ( hit and run fans this isn't for you ) Look past the stuff look past the big day because it is only one day not the rest of your life! If the person makes you smile when you are down, makes you feel safe when you need to feel safe and there is the undeniable passion between you ( not angry sex the long slow kind ) then it could be the right person but if its just think about what happens if you lose all the stuff or what if you can't have a huge wedding would you still feel the same? I know I want to find someone who values the little things and someone who will never stop trying to put a smile on my face. I want to be with the person who I wake up next to everyday with a smile on my face not the person who I contemplate making pancakes for breakfast or a pillow over the face. If you just want more stuff work harder and buy it yourself if you want forever find the person who will have your back if the stuff is gone!
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