XOXO Life bring on the magic and all the good stuff you have waiting for me, I have been to hell and came back a better person who is ready to take over the world with or without someone holding my hand! <3 Warrior T
I read this blog earlier today about the difference between Love and Settling... I completely agree with the way they explained love vs settling. Settling is safe, convenient, regular, consistent, I am not saying there is not love there because there could be. It would be the kind of love that you love the person but you are not in love with them..... Now love ahhhhh the coveted thing that makes us giggle like idiots when you see the persons name come across a phone or computer screen and God help us if we see them in person we get dumber ( well sort of ) Love makes you smile and never stop trying to make the other person happy. Love should make you feel amazing like you are the only person in the entire world when they look at you. I have seen couples with this love that people don't think can happen, my grandparents were prime examples of Settling vs Love. One set settled and that was obvious, when my grandmother passed away my grandpa began to live again and he found love, true love. And let me tell you they were beyond adorable. I was fine at his funeral until she walked in all 4' 8" of her, she looked at him and tears were in her eyes as she said goodbye and that broke my heart. My other grandparents had a marriage that people dream of, not because they were rich but they were so stinking in love. It wasn't always easy but they did it all together and love conquered all and I am sure when my grandma passed away grandpa was there to take her hand to walk through those pearly gates. One more couple that proved to me that real love, true love is possible is my friend Theresa and her husband Vinnie. Again was life perfect for them, nope but they sure as hell loved each other beyond comprehension in the most beautiful way possible. While Vinnie was falling more and more ill she stayed right by his side and was never afraid to tell everyone how much she loved that man. No one is perfect but being in love, really in love with someone can make ordinary moments beautiful. So many inspirations for me to look at to reassure me that love is possible, if you don't just settle for someone to fill a spot. It's true you can't force it to happen it just kind of happens, believe me I tried to force it to happen when I was married and it didn't work. You can care about someone or love them and not be in love with them. The blog was right settling is being scared, being in love is for the brave. To all my brave peeps, keep up the good work and let that love shine. To all of my scared peeps, it's ok to be scared you will come to a point when you are ready to live life not just exist.
XOXO Life bring on the magic and all the good stuff you have waiting for me, I have been to hell and came back a better person who is ready to take over the world with or without someone holding my hand! <3 Warrior T
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Theresa
4/17/2016 09:52:18 pm
Way to make me cry woman. <3 T
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